If you know me for more than a few minutes you know that I am NOT a girly girl. Never have been...
I don't paint my nails, I don't know how to apply eye make-up, I don't own pink clothes, and just generally don't do glitter.
And then, God gave me Miss. A. I am a little bit scared. She loves pink, she loves glitter, she loves pretty things. We don't own any princess movies (I am opposed for many reasons, perhaps a topic for another post). When I played a Jay Jay the Jet Plane movie for her the other day there was a princess movie preview. A stopped in her tracks, "Mama, what that? Mama, I need that!"
Today at Fred Meyer I let A walk through the store rather than ride in the shopping cart. It was actually a really fun shopping trip. Before we went in she scoured the shopping cart area looking for a car cart. I was relieved when there were none, those huge carts do not steer well. But without the car cart A looked at me and announced, "I walk!" So we made a deal, she would stay with us (me, little K, and big K) and I would let her walk. She was so proud. She helped me push the cart through the produce section, where I had to pull her away from the broccoli. She grabbed a floret before I could stop her and quickly shoved it in her mouth. She wanted to know the names of all the produce that I don't usually buy, and nearly pulled a tower of eggplant down onto herself. But she was really doing a good job of listening and staying with me.
We left the produce and entered the dairy and A was still walking. We were having a lot of fun, kind of chatting, and moving through the store. K needed new running shoes so we crossed the entire store en route to the shoe department. On the way, A ran up to just about anything that shined, or was fluffy, or pink. "What dat?" "Look! Mom!" "Ooooo!" A moved along with me, touching but not grabbing. When we got to the shoes, she asked, "Where A shoes mom?" K was getting shoes, she wanted some too. She actually really needed shoes. She has been wearing one pair all summer and they are getting kind of stinky.
A and I moved further down the aisle to the toddler shoes. She quickly spotted these:
Those are her legs by the way. Actually she spotted the pink version of these, but I steered her to silver thinking it would go with more???
Then A nearly lost control when she spotted some extremely well packaged rainbow colored shoes with pictures of pretty little dolls on them. It was a sensory overload of pink girlyness and she really wanted them. "Oh, oh, dis one! I like dis!" I did my best at explaining that the shoes were of very poor quality and that the maker had merely done a good job (fantastic actually) packaging the product.
I tried to interest her in some aqua color converse all-stars. But alas it was not to be. She was already proudly parading around in her new sparkly shoes. Big K didn't help. When he finished choosing and trying on his new running shoes he came over and spotted A's new shoes. He gushed about how pretty her sparkle shoes were. Not to be outdone a nearby employee came over to tell A how pretty her new shoes were.
I was dreading informing A that the shoes would need to be taken off and put back into the box before we could take them home. As I broke the news to her she started to jump up and resist. But she stopped herself, listened to me explain that we have to pay for the shoes, blah blah blah. Then she took off her new shoes and carefully returned them to the box before asking me to help her put her old Merrels on.
We had to race out of there, big K needed to get to soccer practice. On our way out we passed scarves, and fun hats, sunglasses, and earrings. All of which A dashed up to excitedly, admired, and then hustled to catch me. It was so much fun!